Words Matter - pump yourself up…not down
Confidence in the workplace can ‘ebb & flow’.
Purposefully choosing positive or powerful words or phrases can help you exude more confidence?
It takes consistent practice! I did it throughout my corporate career and saw first-hand how it helped shape perceptions, while also supporting my self-assurance.
Top Tips for Building Yourself Up
Choose Written Words Wisely: When you proofread your work, look for & replace weak or uncertain phrases with strong & decisive ones. (You will get faster at these edits over time!)
Use Positive Language: As an example, it could be as simple as saying “what’s happening?” vs (what so many people do say) “what’s wrong?”😊
Speak with Conviction & Brevity: Being respectfully direct, clear & concise is helpful to your audience. You can lose your point (and people) with too much detail. Follow up with more details --- if they ask.
Watch your Body Language: Stand straight, shoulders back, eye contact, use hands/arms to emphasize key points (but not excessive). You know this!
Here is the tough one ……Employ Active Listening: Communication is a two-way street. Be genuinely interested in others, listen & respond thoughtfully. (Like you truly did listen 😊)
I am sure you have heard this before, but my question is…. “Are you consistently doing it?”
